From Mrs Joyce Meyer
USA TV Evangelist
A GOOD WOMAN, MAKES A GOOD WIFE AND A
GOOD WIFE BECOMES A GOOD MOTHER.
A GOOD MOTHER GIVES BIRTH TO A GOOD
CHILD. IF YOU WANT TO BE ONE EMULATE
THESE STEPS BELLOW:
1). Never raise your voice for any reason to
your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.
2). Don't expose your husband's
weaknesses to your family and friends. It
will bounce back at you. You are each
other's keeper.
3). Never use attitudes and moods to
communicate to your husband, you never
know how your husband will interpret
them. Defensive women don't have a happy
home.
4). Never compare your husband to other
men, you've no idea what their life is all
about. If you attack his Ego, his Love for you mixed color for bridesmaid wear of two tone
will diminish.
5). Never ill treat your husband's friends
because you don't like them, the person
who's supposed to get rid of them is your
husband.
6). Never forget that your husband married
you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your
duties.
7). Never assign anyone to give attention to
your husband, people may do everything
else but your husband is your own
responsibility.
8). Never blame your husband if he comes
back home empty handed. Rather
encourage him.
9). Never be a wasteful wife, your husband's
sweat is too precious to be wasted.
10). Never pretend to be sick for the
purpose of denying your husband's right.
You must give it to him how he wants it. It's
very important to Men, if you keep denying
him, it is a matter of time before another
woman takes over that duty. No man can
withstand on starvation for too long (even
the anointed
ones)
11). Never compare your husband to your
one time Ex-lover. Your home may Never
recover from it if you do.
12). Never answer for your husband in
public opinion polls, let him handle what is
directed to him although he may answer for
you in public opinion polls.
13). Never shout or challenge your husband
in front of children. Wise Women don't do
that.
14). Don't forget to check the smartness of
your husband before he checks out.
15). Never allow your friends to be too close
to your husband.
16). Never be in a hurry in the bathroom
and on the dressing table. Out there your
husband is always surrounded by women
who took their time on their looks.
17). Your parents or family or friends do not
have the final say in your marriage. Don't
waste your time looking up to them for a
final word. You must Leave if you want to
Cleave.
18). Never base your love on monetary
things. Will you still submit to him even if
you earn more money than him?
19). Don't forget that husbands want
attention and good listeners, never be too
busy for him. Good communication is the
bed rock of every happy home.
20). If your idea worked better than his,
never compare yourself to him. Its always
team work.
21). Don't be too judgmental to your
husband. No man wants a Nagging wife.
22). A lazy wife is a careless wife. She
doesn't even know that her body needs a
bath.
23). Does your husband like a kind of
cooked food? Try to change your cooking.
No man jokes with food.
24). Never be too demanding to your
husband, enjoy every moment, resource as it
comes.
25). Make a glass of water the very first
welcome to your husband and everyone
entering your home. Sweetness of attitude
is true beauty.
26). Don't associate with women who have
a wrong mental attitude about marriage.
27). Your marriage is as valuable to you as
the value that you give it. Recklessness is
unacceptable.
28) A confrontational wife, can never keep a
good husband and her home, she will be
grooming irresponsible daughters without
manners.
29) A woman who cannot manage her
children, home and husband is a complete
failure in life no matter her achievements.
30) A wise woman honors her husband,
and respect him, in turn the husband will
cherish her and love her dearly - it will be
natural. Husband is a beautiful gift from God,
no woman can stay without a husband. No
good man on earth can tolerate a
confrontational and argumentative wife
except they have lost their value and
become less of a real man.
31). Fruit of the womb is a blessing from the
Lord, love your children and teach them well.
32). You are never too old to influence your
home. Never reduce your care for your
family for any reason.
33). A prayerful wife is very wise and
intelligent and she is a better equipped wife,
pray always for your husband and family.
Conquer all your challenges and problems
with prayers, only Christ can solve our
problems - not parent, not pastors, not
anybody but, only you and Christ.
Send it to every woman you know. You
never know whose marriage you are about
to save. And to every man so that the
women in their lives can be better guided.